The best 29 Finding Yourself books

Be Here Now (1971) is the story of one man’s spiritual awakening in India. In addition to his learnings and insights, it contains practical guidance for anyone embarking on their own spiritual journey.

Their Eyes Were Watching God (1937) is a defining work in African-American and feminist literature. It explores love, independence, and identity through the eyes of a Black woman in the rural American South.

Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher is a compelling novel that delves into the delicate issues of teenage suicide, bullying, and the ripple effects of our actions. Told through cassette tapes left by a girl named Hannah Baker, it follows the thirteen reasons why she decided to take her own life. This thought-provoking book challenges us to reconsider how we treat others and the impact it can have.

The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen delves into themes of love, loss, and self-discovery. The story follows protagonist Macy as she navigates life after her father's unexpected death. Through her job at a chaotic catering company and her growing connection with a charming artist named Wes, Macy learns to embrace imperfection and find the courage to pursue her own happiness.

Eleanor & Park is a young adult novel by Rainbow Rowell about two misfit teenagers who fall in love in 1986. Set over the course of a school year, it explores themes of love, friendship, and family, while addressing issues such as bullying and domestic abuse. It is a heartwarming and nostalgic story that will resonate with readers of all ages.

Wild by Cheryl Strayed is a memoir that takes readers on an emotional and physical journey. After experiencing personal hardships, Strayed decides to hike more than a thousand miles of the Pacific Crest Trail on her own. Through her honest and introspective storytelling, she reflects on her past and discovers inner strength and healing along the way. It's a captivating tale of adventure and self-discovery.

All the Bright Places by Jennifer Niven is a powerful and heartbreaking novel that explores mental illness, love, and the impact we have on each other. It tells the story of two teenagers, Violet and Finch, who meet on the ledge of a bell tower and develop an unlikely friendship as they embark on a journey to discover the beauty and meaning in their lives.

Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman is a compelling novel that delves into the life of the quirky and solitary Eleanor Oliphant. As Eleanor navigates through everyday life with her unique perspective, her carefully constructed world begins to unravel. This heartwarming and thought-provoking story explores themes of loneliness, the power of human connection, and the possibility of healing.

Memoirs of a Geisha is a captivating novel that delves into the hidden world of 1930s Kyoto, Japan. Written by Arthur Golden, it tells the story of a young girl named Chiyo who is sold into the life of a geisha. From her training to her eventual rise as one of the most renowned geishas of her time, the book offers a fascinating glimpse into the customs, traditions, and sacrifices of the geisha culture.

Ready Player One is a science fiction novel by Ernest Cline that takes place in a dystopian future where people escape their reality by immersing themselves in a virtual reality world called the OASIS. When the creator of the OASIS dies, he leaves behind a series of challenges that lead to an Easter egg hidden within the virtual world, and the one who finds it will inherit his fortune. The story follows teenage gamer Wade Watts as he embarks on a thrilling quest filled with 80s pop culture references, friendship, and adventure.

Little Fires Everywhere (2017) by Celeste Ng is a novel that delves into the complexities of motherhood, identity, and the power of secrets. Set in the picture-perfect suburb of Shaker Heights, the story intertwines the lives of two very different families, uncovering the long-buried truths that eventually ignite a destructive fire. With beautifully crafted characters and thought-provoking themes, this book captivates readers from beginning to end.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky is a poignant coming-of-age story that follows Charlie, a shy and introspective teenager. Through a series of letters, Charlie shares his experiences as he navigates high school, friendship, love, and loss. The book delves into themes of mental health, identity, and the complexities of growing up.

In the Meantime by Iyanla Vanzant offers guidance and wisdom for those who are in a "meanwhile" phase of life while waiting for their desires to manifest. With a focus on self-love, healing, and personal growth, the book provides practical advice and spiritual insights to help readers find peace and fulfillment in the present moment.

Turtles All the Way Down by John Green delves into the life of 16-year-old Aza Holmes as she navigates friendship, love, and her own thoughts. Set against the backdrop of a mystery, this novel offers a raw and honest portrayal of mental illness and the complexities of the human mind.

Everything, Everything is a captivating novel by Nicola Yoon that tells the story of a girl named Madeline who is allergic to the outside world. Confined to her house for her entire life, everything changes when a new family moves in next door. The book explores themes of love, risk-taking, and the power of human connection in the face of adversity. It is a beautifully written and thought-provoking read.

Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell follows the story of Cath, a socially awkward college freshman who is deeply immersed in the world of fan fiction. As she navigates the challenges of her new life, Cath grapples with the complexities of family, friendship, and first love. This heartwarming novel delves into themes of identity and self-discovery, making it a must-read for anyone who has ever been a passionate fan.

The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd is a captivating novel that delves into themes of family, love, and the power of female community. Set in the American South in the 1960s, it tells the story of a young girl named Lily Owens who runs away from her abusive father in search of her mother's past. She finds refuge with three beekeeping sisters and discovers the extraordinary world of bees, while also uncovering the truth about her own family.

Call Me by Your Name is a captivating novel by André Aciman that tells the story of a passionate summer romance between 17-year-old Elio and 24-year-old Oliver. Set in the sun-drenched Italian countryside, the book explores themes of love, desire, and self-discovery. Aciman's beautiful prose and poignant storytelling make this a must-read for anyone who enjoys a heartfelt and thought-provoking tale.

Paper Towns by John Green tells the story of Quentin, who embarks on a journey to find his enigmatic neighbor Margo, after she suddenly disappears. As he follows clues left by Margo, Quentin discovers that she is not the person he thought she was, and learns valuable lessons about friendship, love, and the complexities of human nature.

Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty is a gripping novel that delves into the lives of three women whose seemingly perfect lives unravel to reveal dark secrets and lies. Set in a picturesque coastal town, the book explores themes of friendship, motherhood, and domestic violence, keeping readers on the edge of their seats until the very end.

One for the Murphys by Lynda Mullaly Hunt is a heartwarming and poignant novel about 12-year-old Carley who is placed in a foster home after a difficult family situation. As she navigates her new life with the caring and supportive Murphy family, Carley learns about love, trust, and the true meaning of family. This beautifully written book reminds us that sometimes, family is not about blood, but about the people who love and support us.

The Sky Is Everywhere by Jandy Nelson is a heart-wrenching and beautifully written novel about love, loss, and grief. It tells the story of a teenage girl named Lennie who is struggling to cope with the sudden death of her sister. As she navigates her own feelings and relationships, Lennie finds solace in music and poetry, ultimately learning to find hope and healing in the midst of tragedy.

It's Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini takes you on a journey into the mind of a young boy struggling with mental illness. Through a blend of humor and raw honesty, it sheds light on the complexities of depression and the importance of seeking help. A thought-provoking and heartwarming read.

The Fault in Our Stars is actually written by John Green and tells the story of two teenagers, Hazel and Gus, who meet at a cancer support group. As they bond over their favorite books and share their fears and dreams, they embark on a journey that challenges their perspectives on life and love. It is a poignant and beautifully written novel that explores the complexities of living with illness and the power of human connection.

Along for the Ride by Sarah Dessen is a captivating coming-of-age novel that follows Auden as she spends a transformative summer in the beach town of Colby. Filled with themes of self-discovery, family dynamics, and first love, this book takes readers on a journey of growth and new beginnings.

Wonder by R.J. Palacio is a heartwarming and thought-provoking novel that follows the story of August Pullman, a young boy born with a facial deformity. It delves into the challenges he faces as he enters a mainstream school for the first time and the impact he has on those around him. The book touches on themes of kindness, acceptance, and the beauty of being different.

Looking for Alaska (2005) is a compelling coming-of-age novel by John Green. It follows the story of a young boy named Miles “Pudge” Halter as he enrolls in boarding school and meets the enigmatic Alaska Young. The novel explores themes of love, loss, and the search for meaning, taking readers on an emotional journey that challenges their perspectives on life and death.

Since You've Been Gone by Morgan Matson is a captivating novel that delves into the power of friendship and self-discovery. When Emily's best friend, Sloane, mysteriously disappears, she is left with nothing but a list of challenges that Sloane has left behind. As Emily embarks on a summer of unexpected adventures and personal growth, she learns valuable lessons about love, independence, and the true meaning of friendship.

In the Meantime by Iyanla Vanzant is a powerful book that offers guidance and wisdom for anyone who feels stuck in their life or relationships. With a blend of personal anecdotes, practical advice, and spiritual insights, Vanzant helps readers understand the importance of embracing the "meantime" - the period of waiting and self-discovery - as a crucial part of their journey towards fulfillment and happiness.